Another one bites the dust! Our new case worker, the one we
just met the day Primero was adopted, has found a new job and her last day with
CHOR is today. Sigh. So, we are once again getting a new case worker. Our third
since our beloved case worker moved to Florida the end of July. Fortunately, I
am able to manage with less case worker support than I needed in the past. I
don’t feel as alienated as I had with the case worker during placement
Four, but I do feel rather put out. It takes a long time to get used to a new
case worker, to really be able to trust and talk to them and not have it feel
like a business transaction. And that’s just me! It isn't easy for the kids to get used to someone new either. Luckily, little Love Bug has
no clue he’s move onto his fifth case worker, but Chica Marie remembers her
previous workers and often times calls the new worker by their names. She’s
also on her fifth case worker. So much for stability within the system itself! I
know this case worker wanted to do a good job, she was very earnest, but every
time we change hands a little something gets lost. And, quite frankly, it gets
old having to re-explain us and the kids and our situation and what’s going on
with the kids. We are in the midst of things with Chica Marie and now it will
be totally up to me to be sure everything is covered. I suppose, in some
respect, it’s simply preparation for adoption, when everything will be up to me
anyway. But, that isn’t happening anytime soon, at least not according to the
email I received from the county case worker last week. So, until then, I will
just have to keep repeating things to different case workers and hope I don’t
leave anything out!
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