Tuesday, August 30, 2016

Beyond Frustrated


The saga of Chica Marie’s education continues. Yesterday we attended the kindergarten orientation, just like all the other kindergarten children in our school. Sadly, it was just a reminder of what Chica Marie was not going to be doing. I was able to take her to her temporary classroom and introduce her to her temporary teacher. I can only hope that helps her adjustment, as fleeting as it may be.
 
This morning her mobile therapist was waiting for us at the school while the students waiting in the van were sorted into their respective classrooms. Love Bug was clinging to Chica Marie, holding her hand and waiting impatiently along with her. He howled when I tore him away from her and she went into the school building for her first full day of school. Chica Marie had been acting up in small ways yesterday, both at daycare and at home. I’m hoping having a familiar face in the classroom will help ease her into things.
 
There have been a flurry of emails between the mobile therapist and the county case worker regarding what is needed for our meeting on Thursday. The county case worker is not really understanding what is needed for this meeting and keeps demanding some form to be signed by either a judge or bio mom. The reality is, this meeting is the form, meaning we need someone to provide consent for a TSS worker to enter the school for the allotted hours that will be determined at the meeting. The back and forth is maddening as each side makes demands of the other. I forwarded the exchange to the CHOR case worker, in hopes that she might be able to help translate what is needed by the mobile therapist to the county case worker. She sent an email to us all. More. emails. Ermagwad!
 
Meanwhile, poor Chica Marie is stuck in a classroom that really isn’t entirely appropriate for her while she waits for the grown-ups to sort this mess out and get her the education she deserves. I need a stronger word than frustrated because that is how I feel.  

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