Tuesday, August 2, 2016

Second Familyversary


Today marks two years since Chica Marie officially moved in with us, which makes it two years since we became an unofficial family. We have been through a lot these two years together and we have all grown in our own ways. In a few weeks Chica Marie will start school. It’s crazy to think of how small she was when she moved in and how much she has grown. It’s sad to think she has spent almost half of her life in foster care and the end is not yet in sight. I did get notification, via an email forwarded from the CHOR case worker, stating TPR has been rescheduled for September, six weeks away. At minimum, Chica Marie will have lived with me for 776 days and been in the foster care system for roughly 980 days. And, TPR is only one step necessary for adoption, with many, many more needed before finalization can occur. What is irritating is that all the paperwork I did for Primero’s adoption will expire and I will have to do it all over again. It took roughly 9 months from when TPR happened for Primero’s mom until finalization. And things were rushed in the end to have the adoption completed before the new year. If things take as long for this adoption, Love Bug will be a few weeks shy of his third birthday when he is finally adopted. That is insane!

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