A few weeks ago I wrote about a misunderstanding at a local eating establishment. It hurt my soul to think how cruel the world is for
people who don’t fit the neuro-typical mold. Our dining experience this past
Friday has restored a little bit of my faith in humanity. We wanted to get
pastelillos (empanadas) from a local Salvadoran food truck. The plan was to
take our food home to eat it. When we placed our order we were told they didn’t
have any pastelillos. So, Chica Marie and I ordered papusas and Love Bug
settled on yellow rice. While we were waiting for our food two men came to eat.
My kids started talking to the men, asking them questions. The men were charmed
by my little chatty Cathy’s and answered them back. The men spoke to the
children in English and Spanish while we conversed in Spanish. At one point,
one of the men shared his salad with the kids because they were curious why he
only put salt and lime juice on it. My kiddos refused to leave when our food
was ready, so we sat and ate with our new friends. The woman who owned the food
truck came out to talk to us as well. She explained how delighted she was to
see non-Hispanic kids enjoying her food. They even helped Love Bug make a limeade
drink with his water, some limes and sugar. No one was bothered when Love Bug
got a little loud or used his hand to stir his concoction. No one was upset
that Chica Marie asked a million questions and butchered the Spanish words she
tried to pronounce. It was actually the best dinner out of the house in memory.
I was so grateful for the inclusion and kindness by the people we didn’t know.
The sense of family and community is one of the things I love most about the
Hispanic culture. But, for a momma with “difficult” kids, the simple act of
compassion was the greatest gift.
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